Who Should I Choose as My Personal Representative of My Last Will?

February 6, 2020

Choosing a personal representative is one of the most fundamental elements of any last will. The main characteristics of a good personal representative are good common sense, excellent organizational skills, and integrity.

Some people choose to appoint their spouse, a sibling, or an adult child, while others prefer to nominate a professional (such as a lawyer or accountant). Alternatively, it can simply be a good friend. Whoever you choose should be both competent and trustworthy.

Other things being equal, it often will pay to choose a family member or friend as personal representative for the simple reason that these people expect little – if any – compensation, will respect your wishes, and are generally keen to process things and finalize them as soon as possible. However, keep in mind, the process can be quite administrative and time is often of the essence. You must choose someone who is organizationally reliable. It also makes sense to appoint someone who is living nearby as an executor so that they will be well placed to deal with the management, collection and distribution of the estate’s assets.

Your personal representative must be willing and prepared to carry out the sometimes wide-ranging, sometimes minimal, steps that may be required to finalize your estate. As such, you should always consult your choice of executor before you sign your will so as to be assured that your choice agrees to act as executor.

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For more information on personal representative duties, read some of the other articles on executors, executor duties and probate on this website.

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Related reading: Who Can Be an Executor? Choosing and Naming One; Choosing an Executor, Trustee, Guardian and Agents; Executor Duties: Appointment to Final Accounting.

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When making your will, it’s always a good idea to appoint one or more alternate executors. An alternate executor is someone who will perform the duties of the first named executor should they be unable or unwilling to do so (for whatever reason). If the alternate executor is required to act, he or she will be bound by the same legal responsibilities and fiduciary duties as the original executor.

From Legal Will Kit, 2026 Fourth Edition — Alternate Executors.

Legal Will Kit — 2026 Fourth Edition cover

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U.S. guidance; not intended for Louisiana. Complex circumstances may need individual legal advice.

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